Sunday, March 8, 2015

Two Weeks

After two weeks being out of prison - I mean Vasona - things are settling into a semi-predictable routine.  Things aren't perfect but who ever said life would be perfect?  And if they did they didn't have kids, a job, relatives or a life.

First off, I would like to thank Pinterest for helping me solve the bib issue.  I found a post about a too complicated man-bib but I solved that by purchasing a couple of extra large men's shirts and cutting off the sleeves, back (up to the yoke), and collar to make a very good, and stylish, man-bib.  No tucking required!  No sewing required either!

Being more positive and not dwelling on the bad are keeping my head and heart clearer.  Everytime I find myself slipping into a negative place I yell, "STOP IT!".  I did this yesterday while running and scared a guy getting into his truck.  I was a little embarrassed but then I remembered I don't know the man nor will I see him again soon.  All better.

I have discovered an on-line support group I am checking out when I feel I am getting overwhelmed.  I need to not burden my siblings ALL the freaking time.  I am limited to 5 minutes with them and then we move on to happier subjects.  I am hoping the on-line support will fulfill my need to talk about it sometimes and to gather useful information.

I am looking for ways to keep Steve active without tiring him out so suggestions would be helpful.  We currently do these things regularly: walk at the park, go grocery shopping, run errands, go for drives around the neighborhood, have lunch out, and he sits while I garden.  What else?

Thanks friends!


1 comment:

  1. Read to him...subjects he is interested in. Or better, have the kids do the reading to him. Important for them to be part of 'caring for g'pa'...develops compassion & understanding. You, too will get older & may need attention someday. ; = ] Can he play simple card games? Matching cards, etc. Checkers....Dominoes? Does he have memories of his 'olden days'? Record them. Sorry if these are redundant. Bless your efforts. I KNOW you will NOT regret this time of your life.

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