After two weeks being out of prison - I mean Vasona - things are settling into a semi-predictable routine. Things aren't perfect but who ever said life would be perfect? And if they did they didn't have kids, a job, relatives or a life.
First off, I would like to thank Pinterest for helping me solve the bib issue. I found a post about a too complicated man-bib but I solved that by purchasing a couple of extra large men's shirts and cutting off the sleeves, back (up to the yoke), and collar to make a very good, and stylish, man-bib. No tucking required! No sewing required either!
Being more positive and not dwelling on the bad are keeping my head and heart clearer. Everytime I find myself slipping into a negative place I yell, "STOP IT!". I did this yesterday while running and scared a guy getting into his truck. I was a little embarrassed but then I remembered I don't know the man nor will I see him again soon. All better.
I have discovered an on-line support group I am checking out when I feel I am getting overwhelmed. I need to not burden my siblings ALL the freaking time. I am limited to 5 minutes with them and then we move on to happier subjects. I am hoping the on-line support will fulfill my need to talk about it sometimes and to gather useful information.
I am looking for ways to keep Steve active without tiring him out so suggestions would be helpful. We currently do these things regularly: walk at the park, go grocery shopping, run errands, go for drives around the neighborhood, have lunch out, and he sits while I garden. What else?
Thanks friends!
Read to him...subjects he is interested in. Or better, have the kids do the reading to him. Important for them to be part of 'caring for g'pa'...develops compassion & understanding. You, too will get older & may need attention someday. ; = ] Can he play simple card games? Matching cards, etc. Checkers....Dominoes? Does he have memories of his 'olden days'? Record them. Sorry if these are redundant. Bless your efforts. I KNOW you will NOT regret this time of your life.
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