Friday, September 9, 2016

Obituary


Dr. Stephen R. Voydat, born June 7, 1927 in Queens New York passed away Saturday September 3rd, 2016 from complications of Alzheimer’s, he was 89 years old.  Stephen and his brother Mitchell (deceased) were the sons of Stephen and Adeline Voydat, who both migrated to the US from Poland in the early 1900’s. He attended Columbia University (pre-Med) on an athletic scholarship. Dr. Voydat was an excellent athlete, playing both Baseball and Basketball. He was drafted by the NY Yankees organization as a first baseman, but was drafted at the same time into the US Army for WWII, where he served as a medic in Germany. He helped liberate several Concentration camps by providing medical services to victims and troops. After the war, he returned to New York and attended NYU, Medical School where he graduated with a degree of Medicine in Anesthesia in 1953.
During his studies at NYU, Stephen met the love of his life, Marian Adams, his future wife and life partner. They married in 1955, and moved to Los Altos Hills, California in the mid 50’s where he helped found the Anesthesia department at El Camino Hospital. Together they raised their 4 children, Linda Voydat (deceased), Stephen Voydat, Robert Voydat, and James Voydat(Sherri). Dr. Voydat was blessed with 5 grandchildren, Alyssa, Andrew, Connor, Tylor, and Lauren.
Dr. and Mrs. Voydat were avid tennis players, winning countless tournaments both locally and internationally. In 1974, Dr. Voydat won the World’s Doctor’s Open Title in Chamonix France. Together they won the Husband/Wife national tennis championships three times in the late ‘70’s and early ‘80s. They never boasted about these accomplishment, but they were indeed quite fond of their trophy wall.
Stephen’s greatest joys were found in participating in his children’s, and later his grandchildren’s lives and adventures. He loved to watch Linda on her horses, or the boys in any number of sporting events. Later in life, he spent most of his time traveling and attending his grandchildren’s activities. It always brought him joy to understand the journey his parents had taken and how all of their and his efforts had created such a warm and loving environment so that his kids and grandkids could grow up in such a great place with unlimited opportunities.
His life was truly the embodiment of the American Dream. Growing up with nothing but love and a hard work ethic, enabled him to live and achieve all the things one can dream of, and much more. Rest in peace Dad. We love you forever and always.
Viewing for family and friends will be held at Spangler Mortuary located at 399 S. San Antonia Road in Los Altos on Sunday September 11 from 3-5 PM. A Rosary will follow immediately thereafter from 5-7 PM. On Monday September 12th, at 10:00AM funeral/mass services will be held at St. Nicholas Catholic Church located at 473 Lincoln Avenue, Los Altos California. Interment will immediately follow the Mass services at the Gates of Heaven Cemetery located at 22555 Cristo Rey Drive, Los Altos CA.

Sunday, September 4, 2016

It Doesn't Feel Right....

It doesn't feel right that I won't be winked at by you when I make a joke.

It doesn't feel right that I won't hear, "You're beautiful!" , before I have showered.

It doesn't feel right that I'm not buying a case of Coke almost weekly.

It doesn't feel right that I am not taking you to meetings with teachers this year.

It doesn't feel right that I won't be tucking you in and kissing you goodnight..

It doesn't feel right that I won't have your hand to hold during baseball games.

It doesn't feel right that we won't laugh at something little that amused us.

It doesn't feel right that you won't be telling me what great kids I have all the time.

It doesn't feel right that we won't be singing Tony Bennett tunes constantly.

It doesn't feel right that you won't be here to give us your pearls of wisdom.

It doesn't feel right that you won't be asking to have my dinner instead of yours.

It doesn't feel right that you won't be hugging me and telling me, "I'll make you happy.".

Nothing feels right today.

Rest In Peace My Partner in Crime
September 3, 2016


Thursday, July 21, 2016

Long Time Coming

I haven't posted in a while obviously.  Caring for an 89 year old takes up more time than caring for a toddler and I don't get the satisfaction of cuddling.

June 7th was Steve's birthday.  We went to vote which was super fun.  The precinct supervisor was so cute and had everyone stop and sing to Steve when she found out it was his birthday.  We did lunch out and I made his favorite dinner.  I made him wear a birthday hat while we sang to him.  He was delighted.

It was a pretty quiet month overall.  But Jim left for China for 19 days.  It was sooo long.   Grandpa knew Jim was gone and was cranky at times.  I was too.  It was hard to be on all the time during that trip.

July 1st, the day Jim got home, Steve forgot he couldn't walk well.  We left to get his room ready for bed and he stood up and tipped over his wheelchair.  He tore a hole behind his knee and was complaining about hurting but we put him to bed and he seemed fine.  But Saturday morning he was in too much pain so we went to Kaiser emergency room.  The x-ray didn't show anything but the CT scan showed a hairline fracture in his femur near his hip.  Ugh.  5 days in the hospital and I had to stay with him to keep him calm.  It was long.

We got home by ambulance.  That was exciting. 

Two weeks at home and he is cranky and getting better.

Wednesday, May 25, 2016

Look Out Colorado!

Steve's two grandchildren, Alyssa and Andrew - Bob's
kids, both graduated this year. 
 
Alyssa graduated with Honors from Colorado State University.
Andrew graduated from Silver Creek HS
and is going to the Air Force Academy
with a full baseball scholarship.
 
Steve was very proud and excited about these
two Super Stars.
 
Skipped the security line.  Travel with
someone in a wheelchair is highly
recommended!
 


Steve was reading the flight instructions.
He was sooo excited!

 

The Graduate with parents and grandparents!


 
Sherri, Alyssa (How are you this tall
or am I this short?) & shy G'pa.

Monday, May 2, 2016

Tell it To the Hand

Me:  What are you doing Grandpa?
G'dawg:  What?
Me:  What's with your hand on your face?
G'dawg:  What hand?
 
It's THAT kinda day.
 
#almost89yroldtoddler

Monday, April 25, 2016

Makes Me Happy!

Grandpa and I were bored on Saturday when we went with Jim to the mall.  We went into Macy's ... and they were having a sale .... and we saw pretty things .... did I mention we were bored?


Soooo, whatda think?

Saturday, April 23, 2016

Ted Talks & Grandpa

Grandpa and I eat breakfast together most days
listening to Ted Talks.
Why Ted Talks you ask?
He won't sing to them.
(Singing = Not Eating)
 
SOOOO....
 
This morning we were watching this Ted Talk
by Kenneth Lacovara on Hunting for Dinosaurs
 
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It is a great talk.  Go to the 57 second mark and it shows a
chart about dinosaur time periods.
 
Here's the conversation:
 
(Kenneth talking about finding specific dinosaurs during specific time periods...)
G'pa:  He's right.
Me:  Right about what?
G'pa:  Where to find dinosaurs, like me.
Me: (giggling) Where's that?
G'pa:  (pointing at the chart)  At the bottom.
 
This guy!!!

Friday, April 8, 2016

Related Much?

Grandpa got up early,
Tylor stayed up late,
Grandpa was rather surly,
Tylor was G'dawg's first mate!
 
Now all is quiet,
Oh, and if I haven't stated,
I'm extremely happy with it,
Knowing these two are related!
 
 

Thursday, February 25, 2016

Cupcake War



So, let me tell you the tale of the cupcake wars. 

Long, long ago (yesterday) there were two clashing factions (Me vs. G'pa).  Faction Minecraft Cupcake(MC) wanted nothing more than to turn out 24 cupcakes for a young boy for his birthday celebration.  Faction I-like-green-fondant(ILGF) wanted nothing more than to thwart Faction Minecraft Cupcake.

Faction MC needed extra space to work on the aforementioned cupcakes so she spread out on one end of the dining room table, far, far away from Faction ILGF.  Thinking said cupcakes were perfectly safe from roving bands of Faction ILGF, Faction MC set to work rolling out green fondant.  Faction ILGF asked  what Faction MC was doing and cautiously Faction MC replied.  (Faction MC is wary of Faction ILGF at all times around food.)  Twice Faction ILGF started to pull the table cloth towards his end and twice Faction MC stopped the potential land grab.  Faction MC finally decided a large paper clip was necessary to keep her side from going over a cliff.

Faction MC decided to lob Faction ILGF a chocolate bar to  distract them from possible incursion into Faction MC territory.  But, alas, Faction MC needed ammunition.  Quickly (10 seconds people) Faction MC hurried to get said ammo.  Arriving back to lock and load distraction candy bar Faction MC found Faction ILGF with a mouthful of green fondant.

NOOOOOOooooooo!!!

This act of war required Faction ILGF to stand up, reached clear across the table, grab fondant and sit down within 10 seconds.  Who knew at almost 89 Faction ILGF had it in him.  And, to add insult to the attack, Faction ILGF spit out green fondant and said, "This tastes terrible!".  Seriously?

All was not lost.  Faction MC hurled a salvo distraction and it worked.  Damage was complete with regards to the green fondant but Faction MC had a backup batch.  The day was not lost. 

Wednesday, February 24, 2016

Whatca Doin' G'Dawg?

Me:  What's with the hat Grandpa?
Steve:  What hat?
 
Way to stay cool dude.

Wednesday, February 17, 2016

Equal Opportunity Flirt

Grandpa was so happy to hear
he needed a haircut.
You would think that he had been
deprived of this simple treat.
 
Every time we go see the ladies at
SuperCut he smiles and
chats them up.
 
And he doesn't want to leave.
 
I'm thinking I need to have them
wash and dry his hair next time.
Give the man a thrill.

Wednesday, January 27, 2016

So Glad You Are Feeling Better....

Last week Steve had a cold.  He was so weak that he couldn't walk but a few steps and his throat was so sore he wasn't talking much.

Over the weekend Steve had to be taken to the Emergency Room at Good Sam.  He spent about 5 hours getting tests and scans all to find out he has, oh, a cold.  How 'bout that.

Steve is feeling better now.  Here's our conversation while sitting at the table:

Steve:  I want more cookies
Me:  I think three is enough.  Can I get you some fruit or crackers though.
Steve:  (growling) No?  That's it.  I'm leaving.(scooting away from the table)
Me:  Okay, see ya.
Steve:  Wait.  What?

#calledyourbluffoldman

Monday, January 11, 2016

2015, the end.

We had Steve through December 30th.  He wanted to know why he couldn't stay longer that morning.  It is difficult at best to try and tell him why without upsetting him so I opted for telling him he could stay forever.

Steve:  I can?
Me:  Sure!
Steve:  When do I start?
Me:  Now!
Steve:  Now?
Me:  Yup!
Steve:  Oh, good.  Can I go to bed now?
Me:  Bwwwaaaa, I don't think so.